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I've been holding out on sex for 6 months, is it a possibility he might start looking elsewhere?

http://www.dearcupid.org/question/ive-been-holding-out-on-sex-for-6.html

My boyfriend of 6 months is very affectionate with me i.e holding my hand, kissing, etc, but at the same time I am confused. I know that relationships settle down after a while, but we haven't yet had sex. This is in part because my ex-boyfriend lied to me about wanting a serious relationship and as soon as we had sex he dumped me. I was heartbroken and don't feel I could cope with a repeat of it, so I have been holding off having sex with my boyfriend. I really need to build u p trust first. My boyfriend has mentioned sex a few times but has never pressured me into it. We discussed me going on the Pill which I have since done, but I don't feel ready to have sex with him. I have given him oral sex alot, (which I enjoy v much, and he definitely enjoys v much!!!). He has never given or offered to give me oral (I'm not sure why; it doesn't really bother me too much to be honest but am just curious as to why) but he does masturbate me which I enjoy immensely. These last few times, he has seemed reluctant to touch me at all. He still wants me to given him oral sex which I am more than happy to do, but I am starting to feel undesirable. He just seems to be indifferent to everything. Could he be depressed? I am dying for him to whisper sweet nothings in my ear and touch me. My mistrusting side says could he be having an affair, although there is nothing else to suggest this? I keep thinking to myself that surely there is only so long a man will wait for sex, before he looks elsewhere? Or am I giving him mixed messages too, without realising? I am just really confused and am not really clear what I am getting at even while writing this.

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How does that work peachy? you know you want it just as much as he does if not more. Guess it's all about who has the best poker face.

Lol you guys are so funny. If you read your "rules" you will see right at the bottom who really is in charge and holds the power :roll:

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