What do you find attractive?

[tallulahangie]

I was just reading through the posts about steroid use and noticed a few comments about using steroids to attract the opposite sex...

As a female it would be nice to have a partner who went to the gym and had a nice athletic body (it would suggest to me that they take good care of themselves). Although I do find huge muscly guys impressive, there is no way that I would want to go to bed with one! LOL Bodybuilding is a lifestyle choice and if you can't find a partner who knows what you go through - then what's the point (I mean when you get under-carbed and over-cardioed LOL)

My female friends are physique competitors and with their muscle mass they look quite butch. Obviously they have difficulty in attracting the opposite sex.

So what are you guys and girls attracted to?

[jono]

fun loving, always smiling, motivated, confident, good looking, who take care of themselves, not afraid to go crazy sometimes :grin: women.

im a pretty laid back kinda guy and so long as they are fun to be around its all good :grin:

[Pseudonym]

I think my tastes have changed a bit since I started bodybuilding... I don't find it attractive if a female is too butch, but I like a little bit of shape to them.

I've noticed my friends drooling over movie stars and supermodels, while I've been thinking they look anorexic - "Yeah, she's got a nice face, but she'd look so much better after a bit of weight training..." :grin:

[spartacus]

if we talk about sexual attraction,both type of bodies can turn me on like hell :nod: ...but actually if the woman is an interesting,smart and natural person she's got my attention even if her body is not in best shape...so,a nice body is 4 sure a spontaneous attraction but if the girl is also smart and there is chemistry,there will b great sex and more...therefore great body but not smart=total turn off.

[Cornfed]

To me the ideal woman is curvy and voluptuous with nice clean body lines and good muscle tone. I also find muscular women attractive, provided that they are also somewhat pretty.

[deegee]

I find myself attracted to muscular women, however I have no particular "type" and can be attracted to many different types, builds or race I do not like women who do not look after themselves or are a lot over weight. Muscular women I find more sexualy attractive though as long as they retain some femininity and are not trying to be men

[muffinman]

my ideal woman is mossely, and im not saying that just cos she my girlfriend, lean, muscular but not butch, not to tall, not to short. just got the whole fit strong look going on but still keeping the womanly curves thing happening.

on another note, what the hell is up with skinny chicks, do they think that guys like that shit, hellllllllll no, a girls got to have either muscle or a bit of beef on her carcass, all these super models and waifer thin actresses look horrible, eat some pies!

[deegee]

my ideal woman is mossely, and im not saying that just cos she my girlfriend,

But you would be in a fair amount of trouble if you didnt say that though!

I have never gone out with someone who has what I think is a perfect body, there has always been something else attractive.

I also cant see why any muscular female from the gym has any problems getting men, talking to my mates we agree most of us find the muscular look attractive and having looked over many pictures of NZ competitions I dont think there are any really heavily muscled females like the one posted above.

[tallulahangie]

Some good points made!

I agree - who wants a skinny female as a girlfriend. A friend was quoted "I do not want to go out with a girl who resembles a Somalian on a diet!" (Same goes for guys - I do not want to go out with a skinny guy either)

It's funny how bodybuilding changes your perception of the ideal body. When going out shopping, to the beach etc it is really hard to stop yourself from critiquing someone else.

What I am attracted to now is a lot different to what I was attracted to a few years ago...

[muffinman]

yeah that is true , but it was her body that attrracted me to her when i first met her at the gym and of course i find her very pretty, so i guess she must be my ideal woman as i wasnt interested in any of the other girls around.

that muscley chick in the photo, and others like that i find very impressive, but i dont find it attractive, be like being in bed with a guy!

[jono]

honestly the body can only go so far, sure they might look good but if they are boring as hell and not fun to be around .. cya :grin:

[muffinman]

i totally agree, if they are stupid or just plain boring then its cya wouldnt want ta be yah.

[pimp]

chicks with big calves and small ankles is yummy...reminds me of drumsticks...just wanna eat it HAHAHA

[Varven]

Supermodel skinny chicks are a no-no, if you so much as to touch them theyre liable to bruise :?

Curvy, a bit of muscle/definition without being able to squat more than me and no gym jaw is very attractive !

But of course its usually whats on the inside that counts, on a side note the amount of psychos in 'killer-bodies' (excuse the pun) out there is amazing. Very fascinated by muscle- women, not attracted, just fascinated, sorta like porn stars, you wanna watch them, but not be with one lol 8)

Another thought for you guys out there, the bigger you get, sooner or later your going to be 'less' attractive for a large female population. My gf tried to mention something to the effect of If I got past 85kgs when in a ripped stage, it would be the door for me. Ah well Im just going to have to 'fix' the scales to keep me at 85 in the future :pfft:

cough cough mumble whisper I found muscle girl porn on the net cough cough :grin:

[brock_solid]

Personally i have very high standards, i always have, since i am young, i'm very picky about the right type of girl i go with, usually if she doesn't go to my college, which is in most of the cases here because all the girls at my college are not hot and our neighbouring college is full of hotties, i usually suss out the chicks from there.

Most of the time, i will ask around their college after meeting the girl to find out what she is like at college and if she is popular/hot etc etc, i wouldn't want to get a bad name, however one girl kinda ruined it for me cause she turned out to be a physco, not just to me but every guy she had been with but anyway, usually i am attracted to girls that my mates would think are hot so i would look cooler cause i get hot chicks.

I usually just meet them then ask their mates for the girls number then txt her and meet up, saves a lot of hassles and is really, really easy. I'm usually attracted to blondes, or brunnetes i don't mind aslong as they're hot, hot chicks only, otherwise if i see a girl and she looks like she would be good in the sack then i low key will suss her out.

I love girls that go to the gym alot, they attract me more for some reason, as i could get along with her on a personal level, since we share the same interests. Ultimate goals are MILFs that go to the gym with blonde hair and big tits, they're like peow peow, but i've never been there yet, hopefully when i'm really big and look like i'm 25 while i'm still 17 i can chat them and hit dat shit.

[Chickenlegs]

Personally i have very high standards, i always have, since i am young, i'm very picky about the right type of girl i go with, usually if she doesn't go to my college, which is in most of the cases here because all the girls at my college are not hot and our neighbouring college is full of hotties, i usually suss out the chicks from there.

Most of the time, i will ask around their college after meeting the girl to find out what she is like at college and if she is popular/hot etc etc, i wouldn't want to get a bad name, however one girl kinda ruined it for me cause she turned out to be a physco, not just to me but every guy she had been with but anyway, usually i am attracted to girls that my mates would think are hot so i would look cooler cause i get hot chicks.

I usually just meet them then ask their mates for the girls number then txt her and meet up, saves a lot of hassles and is really, really easy. I'm usually attracted to blondes, or brunnetes i don't mind aslong as they're hot, hot chicks only, otherwise if i see a girl and she looks like she would be good in the sack then i low key will suss her out.

I love girls that go to the gym alot, they attract me more for some reason, as i could get along with her on a personal level, since we share the same interests. Ultimate goals are MILFs that go to the gym with blonde hair and big tits, they're like peow peow, but i've never been there yet, hopefully when i'm really big and look like i'm 25 while i'm still 17 i can chat them and hit dat shit.

I know, no one is going to say this. You will only think it. So I will.

[Mod edit: No personal attacks, thanks]

My suggestion is that you retract this post before every one else sees what a drop kick you are.

Also you might wont to rethink your new photo as friends of the guy he killed my take offence!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[deegee]

After that steroid post and now this one I agree with chickenlegs. Brock you need to think before you post. Because it is not really that funny

[Cornfed]

I don't see anything wrong with his post, apart from straying slightly off-topic. What is all the fuss about?

[jono]

i agree the post is imature.. but hey .. hes just a kid

[Spitterkat]

yo chicken, just let him think his stuff, being judgemental isnt a virtue

[Chickenlegs]

yo chicken, just let him think his stuff, being judgemental isnt a virtue

Yo pussy, I have no problem with him having thoughts. I am suggesting he dosen't write them down for all to read. Its lowering the bodybuilding form stranded to a new low. He should save it for the school yard.

[ExpensiveUrine]

they're like peow peow

Wurd, homeslice.

[brock_solid]

Calling people pussy is what's ruining this sites standards, it is my free expression of opinion, and that's how i see it, why should i lie just so some retard like yourself won't take offence to it? you should be the one checking what you're posting, it's the internet, did you not know that? or is it up to you to be the internet troll?

My steroid post was a joke thread, plain and simple, somebody with that train of thought simply could not handle such power as an internet forums board, anyway chickenlegs stop going off topic, you're lowering the sites standards.

[jono]

Calling people pussy is what's ruining this sites standards, it is my free expression of opinion, and that's how i see it, why should i lie just so some retard like yourself won't take offence to it? you should be the one checking what you're posting, it's the internet, did you not know that? or is it up to you to be the internet troll?

My steroid post was a joke thread, plain and simple, somebody with that train of thought simply could not handle such power as an internet forums board, anyway chickenlegs stop going off topic, you're lowering the sites standards.

i agree that was a bad post. where are the MODS ?? do your job already

[Ash]

IMO, they are both lowering the standards of the site.

Brock Solids' post was inappropriate - I don't want to read about what "shit" he wants to "hit". Given the quality of that post and his steroid post, he doesn't get to take the moral high ground about Chickenlegs lowering the standards.

I do think Chickenlegs was right in pointing out that Brock's post was lousy but he went over the line with the tone of his post and the subsequent attack on Spitterkat.