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Respect for Females on this Forum

nate225

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nate225

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Just a brief word on this.

A number of female members no longer post because of continual silly and needless comments made by a minority of guys on this forum. As a mod I will be cracking down on this over coming weeks and not just for the obvious reason of wanting our female members to have a safe and enjoyable experience at NZBB. I also want ALL members to have the above, and I am aware of two young men here who have got themselves in well over their heads - remember when you take a shot at a female there is often a male standing beside her, and sometimes theres a big fucken male with 20" + guns standing there! :)

You two know exactly who you are - I suggest you make peace before you get made pieces! :)

Nate

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tomsammce Veteran member

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this isnt about disrespect for females... its a carry on of the female bodybuilder thread and some people calling the opinions and posts, personal and offensive attacks...

i thought we were all over that... some guys on here got really quite mad about some of the stuff that was posted... they read it totally out of context and some how applied it to their own personal situations, past situations and other people whom they know situations.

we are all entitled to our opinions... after all thats what bodybuilding is based around... opinions... the whole concept of bodybuilding is to be judged/assesed by a judge who is judging and awarding points off an opinion most of the time... and no its not a judging criteria before anyone tries to say it is, because the judging is so inconsistent its a joke...

i believe im one of the two young men being referred to as better make peace of me made to pieces.... so what exactly did i say and to who did i say it to... if you can tell me that and perhaps quote one of my posts proving it then that might be some help for me to know who i can either apologise to or more likley tell them to go f*ck themselves!

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HarryB Veteran member

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Ok I suppose I better say something because as Tom knows I took great personal offence at the comments he made in reference to female bbs. But Tom has a way with words when it comes to "sluzzas" so maybe its greater than just fbb issue.

You were subjective and saying that you found fbbs disgusting, what you said was a blanket women with muscles are disgusting, they have emotional and mental issues and all guys involved with them or who find them attractive are homos. Or words to that effect. Your opinion is that women with muscles are disgusting but it gets hazy when you start making comments about peoples sexuality, mental and emotional states.

As a male who has had a few fbbs as partners is it not within reason for me to find those comments offensive. Especially considering I have done nothing but extend courtesy and friendship to anyone who approaches me in regard to anything online or in fact in life in general.

I did tell Tom himself that I took offence at what he wrote and he's already toid me to go f*ck myself cos I'm a homo lol so no need to say that again Tom.

Maybe just spare a thought for the people you offend when you use generalised statements and insults. Make mention of someone doing a tennis ball show, someone else being on her knees blah blah blah it would be hard to work out exactly who youve offended the most but I'm happy to put my hand up and say you pissed me right off. BUT I already let you know that and I think we know where we stand.

Over and out.

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Banned! Your fucking kidding! Toms way with words may have pissed his share of people off and i completely understand how some people can take offence but at the end of the day banning a guy for having an opinion and not being scared to let people know is over the top.

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Banned! Your fucking kidding! Toms way with words may have pissed his share of people off and i completely understand how some people can take offence but at the end of the day banning a guy for having an opinion and not being scared to let people know is over the top.

Not being scared??? Or just trying to get a reaction? Well sometimes the reactions you get aren't the ones you want. I am not in complete agreeance with the banning but surely constant sexual innuendo, insulting and abusive behaviour coupled with a complete disregard for even the most basic politeness has to have some repercussion. The shame of it is that the guy knows his stuff and as far as competing and putting himself out there he actually does it and now has gotten himself banned from a forum where he could actually contribute useful information and be a positive role model for guys wanting to emulate his physical achievements.

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Darwinstef Senior member

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Regardless how this post has panned out, Nate is on the money for the way woman get treated on this site. I would like to think in the real world most of you would have some sort of manners and we expect the same here.

Jigga is having a 2 day break and he wont be the only one if we dont lift our game collectively.

Tom has also been given a 2 day suspension but you guys need to know the mods have better things (well I do) to do with their time than babysit.....lets all play nice eh :)

I would like to think that will be the end of this matter but I welcome any well thought out comments you wish to make. I don't know about the bulk of you but I value the added dimension/contributions having females on the site brings and I have no insterest in making this a boys only club.

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Regardless how this post has panned out, Nate is on the money for the way woman get treated on this site. I would like to think in the real world most of you would have some sort of manners and we expect the same here.

Jigga is having a 2 day break and he wont be the only one if we dont lift our game collectively.

Tom has also been given a 2 day suspension but you guys need to know the mods have better things (well I do) to do with their time than babysit.....lets all play nice eh :)

I would like to think that will be the end of this matter but I welcome any well thought out comments you wish to make. I don't know about the bulk of you but I value the added dimension/contributions having females on the site brings and I have no insterest in making this a boys only club.

So is Tom banned or does he just have a suspension?

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I agree, but like some of the males on here, some of the females also think they're above everyone else. Not naming any, because there a lot of people who are guilty of it, but I think it's a little unfair to just target this at females considering the guys cop it a lot more. Well, so I've noticed.

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Your missing the purpose of this topic, we have thrashed the general behaviour of members (including the girls) enough I would have thought? Sure there are a couple of woman on here who enjoy some shit talking, doesn't mean they all do and its the sexual innuendos where it goes to far. If a particular female member says something you dont agree is appropriate then report it.

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