Serious Issue (Well was)

[Pumpupthejam]

I would just like your guys opinion.

I'm fucking off back to the UK in a week and a bit (thank god, not because I dislike NZ but because of the following.)

I have a 3 year old kid with a woman who already has older kids which are 20, 16, and 13. (Yeh shes 45 have a good laugh lol.)

Anyhoo, the issue is her 20 year old still lives at hers, has never worked in his life, is a fat c*nt who plays world of gaycraft and does f*ck ALL but sit on his arse playing it 24/7.

Lately he has gotten fucking smart with me, disconnecting my own computer (I pay the cunting bill) and having the fucking audacity to tell me I'm making him lag. I threatened to knock the c*nt out if he did it again. (PUTJ POWER.)

His mother, unbelievably sides with HIM.

Is this fucking normal or what?

Would any of you guys put up with that? thats one of the reasons I'm leaving.

I've fucking worked my bollocks off here paying bills with those little pricks playing on the internet I paid for and they show me absolutely no respect when I've done ALOT for them, something their useless twat of a father who never sees them has ever done.

Fucking good riddance to them when I go.

[crazyfacials]

set him on fire !

[Pumpupthejam]

Hahahahahaha. I did think about taking a massive shit on his head in the morning when I leave to catch my flight, it'll be a bout 5am when I leave so doubt he would be awake.

[olympia]

Hahahahahaha. I did think about taking a massive shit on his head in the morning when I leave to catch my flight, it'll be a bout 5am when I leave so doubt he would be awake.

Bro better yet crap in a plastic bag and freeze it overnight then break it up in the bag when its solid with a hammer and as you go to leave throw it like a lolli scramble into his room. Itl take months to rid the stench

[Pumpupthejam]

Hahahahahaha. I did think about taking a massive shit on his head in the morning when I leave to catch my flight, it'll be a bout 5am when I leave so doubt he would be awake.

Bro better yet crap in a plastic bag and freeze it overnight then break it up in the bag when its solid with a hammer and as you go to leave throw it like a lolli scramble into his room. Itl take months to rid the stench

Haha awesome idea! LOLLY SHIT SCRAMBLE lmao. THey should sell those in jokes shops hahahaha. "Mmmm this one says its a cola flaboured, in my mouth it goes...EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEHHHH f*ck bro!!! LOL"

I really want to know tho, is this normal??? Would you guys club this prick in your position?

God knows I've fucking restrained myself beyond BEYOND i nthe last 48 hours hes just begging for it, but I'm not jeopardizing contact with my son over this nob end.

f*ck sake. Its his mother more than anything. FML.

[tomsammce]

hate pricks that make me lag when im playing COD especially if it was some depressed foreign homo with a annoying as f*ck accent.

take half a blister pack of prozac, harden the f*ck up and piss off! f*ck some slut and want our sympathy... no way nigga!

[Pumpupthejam]

hate pricks that make me lag when im playing COD especially if it was some depressed foreign homo with a annoying as f*ck accent.

take half a blister pack of prozac, harden the f*ck up and piss off! f*ck some slut and want our sympathy... no way nigga!

I play Black Ops and i OWN cunts on there with a ping of 300 plus!!!

Because I lvie in Chainsaw massacre land i dont have ADSL 2, and that fucking marshmellow makes ME lag with his WOW.

[genetic freek]

So your going to leave ya kid? Your just as bad as the 20 year olds dad. your kid will end up like the c*nt.

Mothers always going to side with her child. No mater what.

[Pumpupthejam]

So your going to leave ya kid? Your just as bad as the 20 year olds dad. your kid will end up like the c*nt.

Mothers always going to side with her child. No mater what.

No I wanted to take him with me but she wouldnt have it. and I'm not 'leaving' him I'm simply going back to the UK to see my relatives and mates for a bit, I'll be back by Xmas. He means the world to me.

If it were up to me he'd never live with her again.

Nothing fucking happening here in Christchurch, its a joke here.

[rovr4on]

so you hate NZ because your mrs kid is addicted to WOW?

are you that ignorant to believe that no one in the UK is addicted to wow?

Did you meet the mrs in UK then decide to come here with her?

[Pumpupthejam]

so you hate NZ because your mrs kid is addicted to WOW?

are you that ignorant to believe that no one in the UK is addicted to wow?

Did you meet the mrs in UK then decide to come here with her?

No no no, I'm leaving because I chose to on my own accord becaue I wanted to go back, I was leaving anyway. I'm saying this is one of the many reasons why I cant stand her kids anymore or her, they are a fucking joke. Disfunctional as you can get.

No I met her here. I made a big mistake having a kid with her. I'm not perfect.

I think I might even start legal action from the UK. He deserves alot better. not that I have any rights being a father and all. Sad but true.

Jesus ,stick to the original point I was making lol.

[Shutupandsquat]

I thought you were just visiting family but okay.

Yeah, it is normal for a mother to take the side of her own child, especially when you threaten to get abusive (most women side with their partner and their children end up hating them) although his actions aren't justified. But you could try reasoning with him sensibly although he doesn't like you. Fact of the matter is; he's trying to be the alpha male and he's getting away with it and so you have to try and establish your ground but in a safe way. Just sayin'.

[genetic freek]

Well It ant going to look good if you bail.

[olympia]

I feel another song coming on :pfft:

[jimjim83]

Get him to sniff your finger and him thats what his mum smells like. Then ask him to lick your finger. If that doesnt motivate him to leave nothing will.

[Pumpupthejam]

Its not just him, its all her kids, they eff and blind at me and she lets them do it, when I say er hang on I dont like this and think this is really disrepectful she says i dont care and its ok.

Sorry but this is not normal, shes not normal.

I only threatened the waste of space because they have pushed me to fucking breaking point what the f*ck else do i do? LEAVE, which is what im doing.

The flight cant come soon enough.

[Pumpupthejam]

Get him to sniff your finger and him thats what his mum smells like. Then ask him to lick your finger. If that doesnt motivate him to leave nothing will.

HAHA just noticed your sig :grin:

[Pumpupthejam]

Well It ant going to look good if you bail.

To who? My mask of sanity is about to slip.

I need to get back there, talk with people I know, get a clear perspective and actually try and think when I'm not raging and stressed to f*ck being here in this hell hole. (This house.)

I have never met such a bunch of fucking spastics in my life. (Her kids and her.)

[rovr4on]

yeah dude, that is well rough...especially the mrs siding with her kids to that extent, she needs to buck up if she wants her kids to not be bums.

where do you work or where were you working before buying your ticket home?

[kalahariman]

I would just like your guys opinion.

I'm fucking off back to the UK in a week and a bit (thank god, not because I dislike NZ but because of the following.)

I have a 3 year old kid with a woman who already has older kids which are 20, 16, and 13. (Yeh shes 45 have a good laugh lol.)

Anyhoo, the issue is her 20 year old still lives at hers, has never worked in his life, is a fat c*nt who plays world of gaycraft and does f*ck ALL but sit on his arse playing it 24/7.

Lately he has gotten fucking smart with me, disconnecting my own computer (I pay the cunting bill) and having the fucking audacity to tell me I'm making him lag. I threatened to knock the c*nt out if he did it again. (PUTJ POWER.)

His mother, unbelievably sides with HIM.

Is this fucking normal or what?

Would any of you guys put up with that? thats one of the reasons I'm leaving.

I've fucking worked my bollocks off here paying bills with those little pricks playing on the internet I paid for and they show me absolutely no respect when I've done ALOT for them, something their useless twat of a father who never sees them has ever done.

Fucking good riddance to them when I go.

Dude...dude shit mate....ok il be honest as you are a man in need of some honest advice, ok here goes. I have been in your situation, being with a woman 14 years older then me for about 6 years, she also had 3 kids and what a lovelly lady at first but mate dont make any mistake.....she will never back you or go against her kids...you will always be the outsider....it is going to be tough mate...but you will have to grow a pair and make a call and stick with it...remember it will get easier....time heals everything!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[rovr4on]

how much of a nerd is her son? you can edit your router so it only gives him X amount of download speed during a connection, do it on the downlow, then you will never lag :pfft:

[genetic freek]

PTJ ant got no kudos

[Pumpupthejam]

yeah dude, that is well rough...especially the mrs siding with her kids to that extent, she needs to buck up if she wants her kids to not be bums.

where do you work or where were you working before buying your ticket home?

I would just like your guys opinion.

I 'worked' at a mussel factory during the day and do security at night. I even got her kid (and I say kid at the age of 20, because hes a mummys boy and doesnt know shit about shit even tho he likes to think he is) a job at MY workplace and showed the fucking dickhead around and what to do. He let me down by quitting after 2 days and making me look like a mug.

Yeh f*ck it im leaving anyway so f*ck them all. (not my son tho obv)

I'm fucking off back to the UK in a week and a bit (thank god, not because I dislike NZ but because of the following.)

I have a 3 year old kid with a woman who already has older kids which are 20, 16, and 13. (Yeh shes 45 have a good laugh lol.)

Anyhoo, the issue is her 20 year old still lives at hers, has never worked in his life, is a fat c*nt who plays world of gaycraft and does f*ck ALL but sit on his arse playing it 24/7.

Lately he has gotten fucking smart with me, disconnecting my own computer (I pay the cunting bill) and having the fucking audacity to tell me I'm making him lag. I threatened to knock the c*nt out if he did it again. (PUTJ POWER.)

His mother, unbelievably sides with HIM.

Is this fucking normal or what?

Would any of you guys put up with that? thats one of the reasons I'm leaving.

I've fucking worked my bollocks off here paying bills with those little pricks playing on the internet I paid for and they show me absolutely no respect when I've done ALOT for them, something their useless twat of a father who never sees them has ever done.

Fucking good riddance to them when I go.

Dude...dude shit mate....ok il be honest as you are a man in need of some honest advice, ok here goes. I have been in your situation, being with a woman 14 years older then me for about 6 years, she also had 3 kids and what a lovelly lady at first but mate dont make any mistake.....she will never back you or go against her kids...you will always be the outsider....it is going to be tough mate...but you will have to grow a pair and make a call and stick with it...remember it will get easier....time heals everything!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I'm a very moral and empathetic person, and god knows I have tried to be the 'better man' even tho I'm the only MAN in this house (balls of steel im the real deal). But when people are liteally taking the fucking PISS day in day out you get to a point where you feel like you are a worthless peice of shit whos feelings and opinions dont matter.

If i was a resident here and all that i would of ripped the twat a new arsehole by now, but im still on a visa.

[jimjim83]

PTJ ant got no kudos

And the competion begins!

No decent parent would turn on their kids. You shouldnt be trying to get her to turn against her kids that will never work and the kids will just hate you more. My life is uncomplicated so I got no advices. Apart from the finger sniffing.

[kalahariman]

yeah dude, that is well rough...especially the mrs siding with her kids to that extent, she needs to buck up if she wants her kids to not be bums.

where do you work or where were you working before buying your ticket home?

I would just like your guys opinion.

I 'worked' at a mussel factory during the day and do security at night. I even got her kid (and I say kid at the age of 20, because hes a mummys boy and doesnt know shit about shit even tho he likes to think he is) a job at MY workplace and showed the fucking dickhead around and what to do. He let me down by quitting after 2 days and making me look like a mug.

Yeh f*ck it im leaving anyway so f*ck them all. (not my son tho obv)

I'm fucking off back to the UK in a week and a bit (thank god, not because I dislike NZ but because of the following.)

I have a 3 year old kid with a woman who already has older kids which are 20, 16, and 13. (Yeh shes 45 have a good laugh lol.)

Anyhoo, the issue is her 20 year old still lives at hers, has never worked in his life, is a fat c*nt who plays world of gaycraft and does f*ck ALL but sit on his arse playing it 24/7.

Lately he has gotten fucking smart with me, disconnecting my own computer (I pay the cunting bill) and having the fucking audacity to tell me I'm making him lag. I threatened to knock the c*nt out if he did it again. (PUTJ POWER.)

His mother, unbelievably sides with HIM.

Is this fucking normal or what?

Would any of you guys put up with that? thats one of the reasons I'm leaving.

I've fucking worked my bollocks off here paying bills with those little pricks playing on the internet I paid for and they show me absolutely no respect when I've done ALOT for them, something their useless twat of a father who never sees them has ever done.

Fucking good riddance to them when I go.

Dude...dude shit mate....ok il be honest as you are a man in need of some honest advice, ok here goes. I have been in your situation, being with a woman 14 years older then me for about 6 years, she also had 3 kids and what a lovelly lady at first but mate dont make any mistake.....she will never back you or go against her kids...you will always be the outsider....it is going to be tough mate...but you will have to grow a pair and make a call and stick with it...remember it will get easier....time heals everything!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I'm a very moral and empathetic person, and god knows I have tried to be the 'better man' even tho I'm the only MAN in this house (balls of steel im the real deal). But when people are liteally taking the fucking PISS day in day out you get to a point where you feel like you are a worthless peice of shit whos feelings and opinions dont matter.

If i was a resident here and all that i would of ripped the twat a new arsehole by now, but im still on a visa.

being a man also means taking responsibility and take control.....in this case agro and swearing and hate thoughts is not the solution mate, believe me, if you are the only man in the house then start acting like one, kids dont know better that is why they are kids and needs an adult to show them how to deal with stuff the right way...so man up and calm down and go deal with it on a mature way. choose which way you want this to go and what you want for the future and run with that.